For a couple years way back when, I was writing two advice columns a week. Both were called "Dategirl." I had already been writing a column for the Seattle Weekly for four years when I started writing my NY Press column. I quickly noticed how different it was writing about your sex life in the city where you lived. In Seattle, nobody could hear me scream. Out here, everyone could watch me blush. Not that it stopped me.
Long-distance/May-December Romance . . . 5/25/05
I've never hired a hooker—does that make me a freak? . . . 3/23/05
My girlfriend went super-freak and then freaked! . . . 12/21/04
"I like to watch women go to the toilet" . . . 11/23/04
My boyfriend is married (guess where this one is going) . . . 10/19/04
I can't stop snooping! . . . 10/12/04
Slut-shaming . . . 10/5/04
Clean break . . . 9/28/04
Saying S-S-S-Sorry . . . 9/21/04
My boyfriend got a blowjob from another dude . . . 9/14/04
Nobody should EVER use the phrase "man cunt" . . . 9/7/04
The Summer Fling . . . 8/31/04
Judy, why are you so full of shit? . . . 8/24/04
Judy, how'd you get so gosh-darned smart? . . . 8/17/04
Isn't internet dating pathetic? . . . 8/10/04
What does "I can do better than you" mean? . . . 8/3/04
Is oral sex REAL sex? . . . 7/27/04
Do you really want ME grading your personal ad? (Answer: probably not) . . . 7/20/04
Is it cheating on my wife if I fuck a guy? . . . 7/13/04
Please stop watching SATC and reading Cosmo . . . 7/6/04
Cohabitation Hesitation . . . 6/29/04
Rebuttal!!. . . 6/22/04
Men are retarded . . . 6/15/04
White Boy Mope . . . 6/8/04
Chicks are retarded . . . 6/1/04
Celibate or sad (or both)? . . . 4/20/04
"Judy, are you a lesbian?" . . . 4/13/04
Labia Luv-uh Man . . . 4/6/04
Man Tawk . . . 3/30/04