I have been giving men this advice for years, yet somehow it seems more legit coming from a mega-schlonged porn star (via Molly Lambert, via the rich girls are weeping take notes):
"You don’t have to be overly macho. You don’t have to be over-complimentary. Gain her respect. And that’s treating her as an equal. Don’t bullshit her. Treat her as a human being. Treat her as you would treat yourself. As soon as you have that respect from her, she’ll treat you with the same respect that you show. Then you fuck the shit out of her." - John Curtis Holmes
Thanks to you, Judy, I have now read John Holmes' entire Wikipedia entry, and am edified.
Posted by: Jennifer Dziura | January 18, 2010 at 06:14 PM
Why is that belt buckle a Mazda logo? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mazda
Posted by: ks | January 25, 2010 at 04:56 PM
Fantastic. I try to explain this concept to guys too, but usually without much success. But I can't really blame them, I'm not a male porn star afterall.
Posted by: Mataya | February 15, 2010 at 09:33 PM